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“Not everything that is faced can be changed,
but nothing can be changed until it is faced.”
James Baldwin

"History, despite its wrenching pain, cannot be unlived, but if faced with courage, need not be lived again."
-Maya Angelou
Kimberly Crawley, MSW, LSW
Therapist
(Pronouns: She/Her)
My name is Kimberly Crawley, and I am a licensed social worker in New Jersey. I served in the United States Air Force Reserves for ten years as a services specialist in the 434th Force Support Squadron at Grissom AFB, IN. This experience has given me a unique understanding of veterans' challenges, which I bring to my work as a therapist. I served one year at Nellis AFB in 1990, supporting the base services unit during Desert Storm. In 1994, I turned in my combat boots to serve as a military spouse and parent. Leaving Germany and relocating to New Jersey, I have over 20 years of working with children and families. I know firsthand what it is like to feel overwhelmed with day-to-day life, especially being a military spouse. I want to earn your trust. I am dedicated to providing a safe space fueled with compassion and empathy. Together, we will work on addressing those racing thoughts, traumatic experiences, life transitions, as well as grief. My diverse experience in the military and civilian life allows me to support you in this journey.
NJ Lic #: 44SL06968000 ┃ NPI #: 1104651884


MY SPECIALTIES

Re-Parenting the Parent
I guide parents in recovering from their childhood trauma, enabling them to become better parents and individuals. I assist them in processing the impact that childhood abuse or neglect has had on their lives while addressing unmet needs and attachment wounds, ultimately enhancing their ability to be nurturing and present parents.

Exposure & Stress Recovery
I help military and first responders in recovering from their professional experiences and critical incidents. As a battle buddy in the mission to restore their mental health, I help them to mitigate re-experiencing, avoidance, and reactivity responses that are still impacting their lives. Learn how to take leave of the past and look forward to the a healthier future.

Racially Responsive Therapy
I provide a safe environment for people of color (BIPOC) in the military and first responder communities to process experiences of racism, discrimination, microaggressions, and systemic inequality. I help clients to heal from disenfranchised grief and internalized racism while helping to foster healthy emotional expression, amplify cultural strengths, and help clients to identify their own personal adaptation strategies.

Healing Relationship Ruptures
Being married to the military or to a first responder can be difficult!
I help couples navigate their conflicts by fostering open communication and mutual understanding. Through this process, we work together to rebuild trust and rekindle intimacy, creating a stronger, more connected relationship. My goal is to guide couples in transforming their challenges into opportunities for growth and deeper connection.
MY APPROACH

Inner Listening
My work is guided by Internal Family Systems (IFS), an approach that sees symptoms as meaningful responses rather than problems to be fixed. IFS helps clients better understand the different parts of themselves with curiosity and compassion, allowing internal conflict to soften, self-leadership to strengthen, and greater clarity, balance, and lasting change to take emerge.

The Mind-Body Connection
I help clients understand how trauma impacts both the mind and body, including the ways stress can shape thoughts, emotions, and physical responses long after an experience has passed. Together, we build awareness of the body’s stress responses and identify patterns that may be keeping clients stuck in survival mode. From there, we develop practical, research-informed skills that restore a sense of safety, strengthen emotional and physiological regulation, and increase resilience.

Rebuilding Connections
I guide couples in improving communication, building trust, and repairing ruptures. I teach couples to strengthen their emotional connection and learn healthy ways to manage disagreements, leading to stronger, more supportive relationships. This approach helps couples not only resolve current issues but also equips them with the skills to navigate future challenges with greater confidence and understanding.

Premier Treatment for Trauma
As an EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) Practitioner, I know this modality can be especially useful in reprocessing events and memories that stick with us and impact our ability to live a peaceful and healthy life. It is helpful in relieving the effects of traumatic events by easing unwanted behaviors and intrusive thoughts.